Many of us like to watch newly married couples dancing. They are a little nervous as they embrace and begin a rehearsed dance in front of the wedding goers. When they remember what they learned and relax a little as the music starts, they begin to move to the rhythm. They let their instincts take over, and feeling a little bit of silliness and a lot of love, they dance. Their love shines through as their bodies move together.

The way they dance together is the way they relate to each other: They may be shy, timidly touching one another. They may be passionate, holding each other tightly as they go through their moves. They may be quiet, keeping time to make sure their steps are in sync with the music.

Are we holding back? Are we nervous? Are we afraid that somehow we are not getting the steps right? What does our dance say about us?