How do you get closer to having love or being with the one you love when you are afraid to be yourself in love? How can you be yourself and be with another? Do you feel you have to give up everything to be with your love, or do you feel you have to have him or her jump through numerous hoops so you can feel he or she is a worthy risk and worthy of your love? How do you get closer to having love or being with the one you love when you are afraid to be yourself in love? How can you be yourself and be with another?

What is stopping you from getting what you want in the love arena? Do you limit your options by wanting Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie or Zach Galifinakis—or their body doubles? Is your attribute list for a potential mate so specific that no one can even come close?