The big reveal is that you now see the world as it is, not as you wish it to be. It has taken you a decade to get to this understanding, and now at last, you can move forward.

This revelation is not an easy one, but it is necessary. At first, it might make you angry and then sad, until finally the knowledge brings relief. At last, you see your way out of the muck and mire, the great stagnation and haplessness of the past decade. At last, the light cracks through.