I seem to have a lot of fear and get stuck in routines. I’m learning to let go of feelings of powerlessness, and I realize my power to create, but I keep going around in circles. How can I create the work and relationship I want? Will I ever attract my “special someone”? I no I don’t need a relationship, but life would be more fun with someone to share it with. I also no my purpose is to find a way to help others, and I’m attracted to healing. Do you have any advice for me? — Cara

From Sara: One of the first things I notice is that you use “no” instead of “know” when you write. This might seem a small thing on the surface — a spelling shortcut or a faster way of texting — but to the universe, “no” means no. It’s as if you’re saying, “I want this,” but your heart is saying, “No, I don’t want this.” When your intention and your heart are not in alignment, the universe goes into a stall pattern until you get clear.