From Michelle: There is an Indian saying: “Man is a creature of reflection. He becomes that upon which he reflects.” Fear attracts fear. The solution is not to discipline our thoughts because that would just be putting a bandage on a very real issue; instead, we must go to the roots of what makes us afraid. Ask yourself this: If war came, your partner left you, and you lost your job, home, money, and health, what is the worst that would happen?